POEM: I DON'T WANT TO LIVE ANYWHERE WHERE THEY ARE KILLING ME

photo by Alex Lear

 

I don’t want to live anywhere where they are killing me

 

1.

it’s crazy. most of us

kind of assume that where we are born

is home, where our first kiss was, learning to walk, literally,

throwing our first stone at someone in anger,

sitting at the table a mouth full of mother’s meatloaf

or was it strawberry pie, or even monkey bread—

those twisted strings of dough that were a wonderful

combination of chewy cake and sweet stuffing—

catching the bus home from school with friends,

the first drink, wasn’t it when uncle teddy

served you beer at thanksgiving, you were five?

like that, we think of that location in the mythic sense

 

the high drama that came later, the desperately sought

trysts, sneaking to liaison with someone you know you

ought to avoid, or the first time you got together

with someone whom you wanted the whole world

to know you were committed to being with for life,

or so you thought, how wonderful the world looked

as you lay dreaming on your back your head

secure in a special someone’s lap, or how short

the walk after the dance from the club to the parking lot,

what you wouldn't have given for a reprise of that heaven

the way a lover looks when their whole face smiles

just because you came around the corner with

a yellow tulip in your hand and a pack of almond m&m’s

secreted behind your back as you whispered

smokey’s ooh baby baby into an eagerly awaiting ear

 

actually those were the preludes—the real high drama

came some years later, the first time calling someone,

anyone, to come and get you out of jail, which you were in

for doing something stupid, something really, really

stupid, and then there was the accident when you banged

up someone’s new car, but those were just the breaks, not

the actual high drama of sitting sullen in some counselor’s

waiting room, your head thrown back to the wall

avoiding the eyes of your better half who was now

the loyal opposition and whose eyes were the same eyes

only smaller in the head of the child to whom you

could not some how find the right words to make sense

of this mess that was formerly your marriage

 

where these scenes take place, the parlor in which

a cousin's camera has caught you crying, the foggy mirror

where you examined yourself, one flight up in a total

stranger’s house and sheepishly you wonder what were you

doing in this blue tiled bathroom so very early in the morning

when you were supposed to be somewhere else—life is what

some people call this, and where you live your life, shouldn’t

that be the place you call home?

 

 

2.

the water. my god the water. the angry water

rain roaring sideways with the force of a freight train,

smashing your resolve to ride it out, or inching

down an interstate at two miles an hour so call evacuating

from the water. the dirty, angry water, running

if you were lucky enough to have wheels and a wallet

with plastic in it. the water. you will dream of

wet mountains falling on you and wake up gasping

for air as though you were drowning, oh the water

deeper than any pool you’ve ever swam in,

water more terrible than anything you can think

of, another middle passage, except this time

they don't even provide ships

 

I used to wonder how my ancestors survived

the Atlantic, Katrina has answered that question,

I wonder no more—there is a faith that is beyond

faith, a belief when there is nothing left to believe in,

no, not god, well, yes, god, for some, for many, it was

jesus, a few humduallahed, or whatever, but it was also

whatever that visited this terror upon us, and so

to keep believing in whatever, now takes something

the mind can not imagine, the realization that in order

to live you had to survive and in order to survive

you had to do whatever needed to be done, few

of us really, really know what we will do

when we’ve got nothing but have to find something

to keep us going, how you manage your sanity

in the water, corpses floating by, gas flames

bubbling up from some leaking underground line,

and you sitting on a roof and you just pissed

on yourself because, well, because there was

no where to go and do your business, five days

of filth, no water but flood water, no food but

hot sun, no sanitation but being careful where

you stepped, where you slept, where you turned

your back and eliminated, being careful to survive

 

twelve days later and you still don’t know where

all your family is, if you’ve got faith, you’re about to

use it all—is this some of what our ancestors saw?

 

 

3.

it is over a month later and you still can’t walk

on the land that used to be your backyard,

they treat you like a tourist, you can only

be driven down your street in a big bus,

you can only look out the window at what twisted,

funk encrusted little remains of all you ever owned

and some kid with a gun won’t let you go

to get big mama’s bible

 

this shit is fucked up, that’s what it is,

fucked up and foul, the smell of a million

toilets overflowing, of food that been rotting

for days inside a refrigerator that became

an oven because the electricity was off and

the sun was beaming down ninety degrees or more

 

and the worse part is that none of what you

already went through is the worst part, the worst

is yet to come as government peoples with

boxes and things they stick into the ground

tell you that even if the water hadn’t drowned

you, something called toxicity has made it

impossible for you to stay here, they are

telling you it is impossible for you to stay

in the house that been in your family

for over fifty years even though it’s still standing

it’s impossible to live here, and what shall

we call this? what shall we tell the children

when they ask: when are we going home?

 

 

4.

I don’t want to live anywhere where they have

tried to kill us even if it was once a place

I called home—but still and all, my bones

don’t cotton to Boston, I can’t breath

that thinness they call air in Colorado,

a Minnesota snow angel don’t mean shit

to me, and still and all, even with all of that,

all the many complaints that taint my

appreciation of charity, help and shelter,

even though I know there is no turning back

to drier times, still, as still as a fan when

the man done cut the 'lectric off, still,

regardless of how much I hate the taste

of bland food, still, I may never go back,

not to live, maybe for a used to be

visit, like how every now and then you

go by a graveyard… I am not bitter, I am

just trying to answer the question:

what is life without a home?

what is life, without

a home? and how long does it take

to grow a new one?

 

—kalamu ya salaam